wooot it worked to write the dvd-r !

growisofs -dvd-compat -Z /dev/hdb=/tmp/deleted.iso

Executing 'builtin_dd if=/tmp/deleted.iso of=/dev/hdb obs=32k seek=0'

/dev/hdb: "Current Write Speed" is 4.9x1385KBps.

1277952/1113300992 ( 0.1%) @0.0x, remaining 58:00

1277952/1113300992 ( 0.1%) @0.0x, remaining 116:01

1071579136/1113300992 (96.3%) @5.7x, remaining 0:06

1097465856/1113300992 (98.6%) @5.5x, remaining 0:02

builtin_dd: 543616*2KB out @ average 4.8x1385KBps

/dev/hdb: flushing cache

/dev/hdb: updating RMA

/dev/hdb: closing disc